Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further informtaion first
What does he actually do with her on his weekends?
When does the contact start and end each weekend?
Have the school raised any concerns?
Has the counsellor expressed any concerns about the long term effect on your daughter
Unfortunatley at 9 your daughter is still a little young for her wises to be decisive
Once she is 12 her wishes will be of much more importance - and the closer she is to 16 the more likely it is that they will be followed
since once she is 16 the Order ends in any event.
Obviously if the school starts to express serious concerns then it is possible that you can try and return to court earlier than her 12th birthday - but after that
date would be more effective
Please ask if you need further details
You are welcome.
i hope matters improve