Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Given that you have not received any bonus why are you still paying the school fees?
Have you applied to the CMS to assess child maintenance?
How old are your older children?
School fees still being paid?
Have you considered making an applictaion for an urgent hearing to ask for the Order to be stayed pending the final hearing?
"stayed" in these terms means suspended for the time being!
The application is made on a D11 form - and by all means use the word suspended rather than stayed - late nights tend to make me forget to use normal language......
If all else fails then simply drop payments to cover child maintenance alone - and pay it to the School
If your ex applies to enforce the order it will be heard at the same time as your applictaion to vary and any arrears can be remitted
Please ask if you need further details
You are most welcome I hope all goes well