Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further informtaion first
How old are the children?
How much does your ex earn - and do you trust him?
How often do the children spend the night with him?
Sadly this is not possible.
Spousal maintenance ends on remarriage whatever the parties agree.
Your only option is to amend the Order so that it refers to Child maintenance alone - and I asked the questions to ensure that this will not leave you open to him applying to the CMS after a year and you receiving less in Child maintenance.
Fortunately this would not be the case although there may be a potential problem when your eldest leaves school if he or she does so before they are 20.
Accordingly what you need to do is have a Consent Order drawn up with the new wording and then to forward it to the court with a D11 and the fee of £95.
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details
It is what causes the problem!
What is the exact wording?
That means that you do indeed need to change it to child maintenance.