Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further informtaion first.
Were these people who are attending court to give evidence?
What did she say to them?
It If they are not giving evidence may I ask why they gave Statements?
Statements are evidence and if the person who gave it is not available to be cross examined then the statement is not
What she has done is not Perverting the Course of Justice - but it does represent further unreasonable behaviour by her
Please ask if you need further details
May I ask how old the children are and what they wish to happen?
Has a CAFCASS report been ordered?
Will her work pattern change if she moves?
And that will continue AFTER the move?
What contact has she offered?
Has she offered to deal with the travelling for the weekend contact
From what you have said her case is not strong and frankly is clearly aimed at thwarting your contact with the children following her losing the case last December
To have any chance of success she would have had to be offering more contact in the holidays and offering to undertake the majority of the travelling.
Your approach should concentrate on your relationship with the children - and her efforts to disrupt it
Given her clear dismissal of your importance in their lives you can point out that it is unlikely that she will promote the relationship if she does move away
Of course I will.
You are most welcome
I am always pleased to hear more - please let me know what happens
That is wonderful news - well done
What did the court order actually say?
So nothing about not speaking to the children?
But it is not in the Order?
It is in there to stop you using the text in court.
If the child had actually said it then she would have taken action.
DO NOT let her press your buttons.
Instead email her
"i am sure that if xxx had said such a thing then you would at the very least have asked what had actually happened to understand where it had come from.
The Judge was very clear that neither of us should speak about the possible move to the children.
It is a shame that you are not able to protect the children by not doing so"
And leave it at that