Thank you for your question
My name is ***** ***** I have been a family lawyer for more than 30 years.
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
How much do you each earn and how much is the mortgage that he is paying?
How much time does the child spend with him?
How far has the divorce reached?
My apologies for the delay - I could not find this thread!
The two forms we discussed are here
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