Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Why would you not give her your mobile number?
How old is your child and when did you last see him?
That was unfortunate advice in terms of setting up arrangements.
However the starting point is to arrange to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting with a Family Mediator
to try and set up a discussion with your ex to arrange for contact to start at a local Contact Centre
If she refuses then you will have to apply to the court for a Child Arrangement Order
Please ask if you need further details
You will have to go to the Mediation appointment first
They will give you the form you need to move forward
The court fee is £215
It will take between three and six months to complete the process
Here you are !
The Cpurt fee is in fact lower - but I cannot find the latest list !
You do not need a solicitor unless you prefer to use one