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Im married, have 3 year old. We have issues in marriage, at

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Hello, Im married, have 3 year old. We have issues in marriage, at times he gets angry unreasonably - in my opinion - throws things, shouts on me in public, on small things, in front of child, once said that he would slap me. If I want to discuss it comes to all my fault and if he is angry then I deserve it. At the end he says, he did his work in marriage, this is his way of getting angry and if I dont change/behave/have issue or want to leave I will loose a child, he ll get it, he s been to lawyer and knows he can have her. (though all 3 years its been me with her at home).Is this behaviour ok? Is it threatening behaviour?
Submitted: 5 months ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Hi

Thank you for your question

My name is Clare

I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first.

Do you wish to have a divorce?

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I was thinking about it as I think we dont match and have different needs and I feel scared and ignored. But because of his threat ( to take the child) I stay, as I dont know if my case is strong enough or if my status would come in my favour.
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I guess my query is, is it ok for him to say this? He did things to better the marriage and I also do things wrong. But if I still dont feel well ( emotionaly dont think we are connected, im hurt by hom flirting online etc) so I cant leave? Am I the bad one here?
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Please do not listen to what his says?

What is your immigration status?

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
EU citizen
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Wrong number, 078 not 9 please
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
are these ok reasons to apply for divorce? And is his behaviour controlling or I want to break a family for nothing?
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Do you understand that a telephone call will cost you more?

What is your immigration status?

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I know that.
Im EU citizen.
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
It says you not available for phone call, Im ok to discuss this online.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I can call id you woudl still like that

Alternatively we can deal with this in this forum

You certainly have good grounds for a divorce and there is no basis on which your ex can remove the child from your care.

If your ex physically threatens you you must report it to the police.

Please ask if you need further details

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