Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
How old is the child and when did you last see the child?
The law says that a child is entitled to ocntact with both parents and the courts will enforce this if necessary.
As a starting point you need to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment meeting to se if agreement can be reached via mediation.
If not then you will have to apply to the court for an Cild Arrangement Order setting out the time that you spend with the children which can be enforced if necessary
The form you will need is a C100 and the fee is £215
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details
You must not stop paying maintenance - and you must attend the Mediation meeting first.
they will give you the form
It is also available here
You attend the MIAM on your own