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Hi I would like to complain about 3 lawyers and judge ruling. How do I go about this?
Asma
Submitted: 6 months ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Asma are you talking about the Care Proceedings?

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare no about the financial matter. Did you read my last question? About the land registry refusal?
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Ex solicitor who is not conveyancing solicitor my 2 solicitor have screwed up my case,
Judge made wrong ruling. I would like to make complaint to SRA?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I woudl suggest that you wait until the matter is resolved before you make any complaints

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, I think Maybe ex has the correct long lasting POA that gives him authority to sell and transfer.
He gave my solicitor just the simple one. My solicitor I think should threaten him with imprisonment. He has to have some form of document he can sell or transfer but he is choosing not go give correct one. That his brother is not in U.K.
If she does take on board what I say other wise she has made a screw up of my case.Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
He was forced to give the correct TR1 force and other documents. If she can be more forceful I am confident he will give the correct one NOW as doors are closing on him
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I think imprisonment would be a good idea

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare do you think ex might have another POA to his possession?
I can't trust him at all. Why is he still dragging all this?
What's his aim and interest? He thinks I am Going to give up it will go away?
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

He is just foolish - I am sure it will resolve

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, instead of using the POA could the brother from abroad Tranfer house to my name?
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Because of this nasty man I'm an financial destitute
It's nevr ending
Is there no purnishment for him?
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, you online?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Yes the brother could sign a transfer

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
It's how my solicitor could find the brother his abroad
Either gets a signature by his brother back home.
It's still complicated and time consuming
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

It is but it is a problem that your ex has created

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare how can this be resolved?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I woudl need to see the letter from the Land Registry to comment!

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare the land registry comment the POA and court order does not match.
What could my solicitor do to rectify this?
They say the POA it's not a correct.
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
All this it's destitute to Me financially mentally physically how can I cope?
Shall I declare myself bank crupt?
I'm in debt and solicitor fees remain
No positive outcome
I am really stuck please advise Me?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

can you send me a copy of the letter from the Land Registry

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I will request to my conveyancing solicitor for the letter from land registry once iv recieve this i will send to you ASAPI think I need to be refered to mental health team
I can't manage anymore I need specialise help
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I think that is a good idea

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
But my GP does not refer me to mental health. Just birmingham healthy mind's which I have just finished CBT 1.1 and group workshop
The medication has changed to mitazapine 15mg from 90mg duloxetine.
It's just property mattetr is stressing me out more
No medication can help me loss of children or property matterIs there any other way?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Yes go back and ask to be referred to a psychiatrist

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare,
By refer to psychiatrist what could they do to help my situation?
I am not really sure they could helpAsma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, my solicitor spoke with land registry and other side. Firstly they will need to obtain a Declaration. If they were unable they will explore other avenues. It's land registery who is questioning the POA.
If all fails we have to return back to court and say POA failed and the home could not be transferred. She will seek entire FMH or ask for retrial.
Ex has taken all what was in the FMH. I am not sure we will get anything
Is that right approach?
What can't she go just for the lump sum?
I think now ex is doomedAsma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare
Sorry are you online?
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare how do email you the letter from land registry?
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi I have attached the land registry letter plse let me know with a response
Many thanks
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Can you send me a copy of the TR1

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I have attached 4 flies
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
Have you recieve tr1?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

You do realise that this means that you cannot claim anything else from your ex - just the house?

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Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, yes but land registry not accepting POA? House can not be transfered
Also they refuse my application
By 18th July my application will be dismissed
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
The land registry are accepting the POA.
So the Tranefer cannot take place.
Or am I missing the point?
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Sorry land registry are NOT accepting the POA I meant
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, what does the letter from land registry say could you please explain to me I will be very gratefulAsma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
All this is very confusing I really do not understand any of this.
I am not what next stage will be. Do you?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

There should have been at least one earlier letter from the Land Registry - do you have a copy?

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Just resent again now
Send it
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
I do have copy iv sent a copy to you now
What does this letter mean?
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

There was an earlier letter from them - I need to see that one

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
An Earlier 1 sent from land registry next I sent 4 attached file I have no other letter.
Can you kindly explain to me what the letter means dated 6th July 16?I have no other letters
Many thanks.
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
The land registry did not give me the letter they sent earlier
Only the letter sent to my solicitor on the 6th July
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

There must have been an earlier letter - and we need to see it

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
I am sorry Clare they might be must be with my solicitor I havr not in my possession.
Does it seem like the application for Transfer in my name for the house is refused?
Have you read the letter from land registry dated the 6th July?
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Sorry if I am keeping send same document
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I have seen that one - what I need to see the previous one that was sent to the conveyancer

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
You can't comment on this then?
Prevups one il try to get from conveyancing solicitor if I can't that all I have realli
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I need to see the earlier one to understand exactly what it is the Land Registry want changed

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, they do not want anything changed they did not request anything at all.
My conveyancing solicitor wants a declaration from the other side what is this declaration they require I am not sure would you have an idea?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

They do Asma - but I need to see the earlier letter to be certain what it is

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
What sort of declaration do they require? Not the land registry but the conveyancing solicitor what type of info do they need from the other side?
Am I making sense?
The land registry do not need anything. The land registry not asking for declaration it's my conveyancing solicitor wants this.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I need to see the earlier letter to know what needs to happen next

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare I have attached
Letter from land registry
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare are you on line?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Right NOW I understand the problem and why the Land Registry would not accept the Orders

Do we know if the brother is contactable at all?

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, my conveyancing solicitor says we have 2 options 1. Take matter back to court
2. Direct the brother to transfer house in my name via another TR1 application executed via through the brother not via ex husband and the power of attorney.I am not sure how ex brother will make contact or ex husband solicitor with his brother.
He will not be able to come to uk I don't think he was deported.
From bangladesh he will have to get an advocate from there and sign the relevant papersBut the applicatin for this one will likely to cancel on the 18th July
They will have to make fresh application
Thanks to ex he made it complicatedAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Is your ex in touch with his brother?

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I am not sure maybe he has he won't tell my solicitor. If he wasn't how does he tell at court that his brother is willing to help him to give the house in a way of settlement.
but I feel ex is going to make excuses that he doesnt know where abouts of the brother or his unable to get in contact with him
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I would suggest he is told it is get him to sign a TR1 or face prison!

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, unfortunately ex is not able to sign to TR1 he has no legal rights to do as states in POA.
The only route is get the brother to direct sign.
Or take matter back to court. My solicitor has not got the confidence to threat ex with prison. She has not got the authoritive attitude unfortunatelyWhich is a real shame
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Yes I am aware - he need sto be told that it is his responsibility to get it signed

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
true he knows that but it could take ages for him to do this. He will make excuses excuses.
That what his good at.
Unfortunately my solicitor is too kind to threat ex
She can do this but she chooses not to
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
It's a real shame ex is getting away with all this. My solicitor is just being calm and not too keen. Why is she giving them Chances after chances?
She is also avoiding to take matter Back to courtAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

She is keeping costs down and trying to avoid taking what is an unusual order back to court

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
So what is way forward then avoid going back court. How can we resolve this?
I lost all options
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
The only way is give up on claim. He gets to keep everything. So I do not get notning. As usual he keeps everything.
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

It is a matter of making your ex anxious about the future than you - it can be done

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
We are hoping by tomoro or early next week we will know more what the other side planning to do.
I asked request transfer of house. I am planing to leave birmingham.
I need to start a fresh
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare?
Should my family solicitor put on notice to the otherside solicitor that if the Signed declaration not done by cetrain date (how many days should she give them?)
If your clients fails to then we apply imprisonment against your client.
Would this be good approach?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Based on what you have said yes

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, yes I have told her my instructions. Now it's up to her to put them on notice.
She agrees with me too.
So hopefully by next week we might get some news A. When will the brother sign declaration how long it will take
B. Apply back to court 1. Imprisonment order against him 2.re trial 3. Full claim of FMHFMH we wont get nothing because he re mortgaged it all out.I am sure if she applies imprisonment then ex will have solution to resolve this.
Other wise he faces prison with penalty.He thinks I will go away he can think again.
I.will never give up
He knows what his done all doors are closing on himHis getting anxiuous what will happen next
He deserves it his playing with fire
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

I am glad she agrees

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, not good news. The other side has not got back my solicitor he doesn't even chase the other side.
I am getting annoyed now.
We have no point waiting have to go back court.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

It is not an easy issue to resolve so fingers crossed

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I am not building my hopes up. Because his not to be trusted
His the pressure now ball in his court either face signing the declaration or face going court with in imprisonment application
His game is up now
His playeed the system. But no more
His got to face the music
Otherwise he faces prison plus penalty
Both houses will go to fraud investigation
He knoe that
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Exactly

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi Clare, do you think he might able to get the declaration signed?
Or he might say I do not know where my brother is?
Act dumb?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

It would not be in his interest to do that - so I hope he finds his brother soon

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare,
No new updates. I have telephone consultation appointment tomorrow. See what shes planning to do.
I guess there is no news today
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Ok maybe tomorrow

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare i presume the other side has not able to decide what route they want to take.
Today date of cancellation for the transfer
I feel both mine and otherside solicitor disorganised made a mockery of my case from day one.
Tomorrow will be another fob off week
Do you advise my solicitor should threat the other side take mattre back it has gone long enougj
My conveyancing and other side solicitor communication with one other is just a disgrace.
My family communicates really wrll with other side but unfortunately shes not assertive
Thats my bad
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare,
Some news other side proposing 1. The house to be sold in my name for only £1
2. Tr1 to be done my his brother signed.She has given them 2 weeks from today for them to compltete the Tr1 if both fail
Apply back to courtOn my instructions she will take matter
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

That is a possibility.

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, she has given them other side 3 weeks for the tr1 sign return
But they will an application to consideration the £1.
If both fail we take matter back to court.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

Well that is at least a clear plan

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, they have decided they will go thr TR1 executed by the brother back home.
They do have 21 days to ger tr1 signed. They are not applying £1 consideration route
Best of luck to them
I still think 2 weeks was more than enough
But she gave 3 weeks.
After all that fails then matter goes back court
Judge to order house to be transfered
If that fails ex sits on the cross examination start asking him questions where we left August 15 final hearing
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 6 months ago.

That is the best option for you

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, i need to move unfortunately ex knows where i live. Via my son his disclosed.
I now feel fearful. Women's aid worker support me with a letter to support my move
Asma
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
This support letter from women's aid
Is this letter good?
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Hi clare, are you online?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I am feeling frustrated now. I feel really upset why my solicitor gave 3 weeks to them
I really dont what else to do to push the otherside
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, are you online?
I am.waiting for your response to my last question
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

It is a very good letter

The solicitor gave them three weeks as that is a realistic time frame

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare i have logged with police.
I have a crime number i.will give statement on Tuesday to police.
I will seek letter from Gp.
Also support letter from organisations i am working with.
More evidence i can show my landlord i may be considered to me rehoused.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

All of that is good

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, do you think tr1 will arrive within 3 weeks?
Execututed by his brother back home
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

There is a reasonable chance I hope

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
He has no choice otherwise his got a warning that matter will go back to court.
When 3 weeks over they wont be no waiting game for him.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare i have no confidence to be honest. Let wait and see what happens.
In all this ex husband is the gainer more not me.
I guess he is playing the system really good
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You will get there I am sure

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I was wondering the property in ex husband name can't he transfer that to my name?
Put the remortgage charge on him
It's easier in his name no hassle.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Is there a property in his name?

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
he has one but he remortgaged £58k.
He was supposed to be cross examined but to avoid he came to negotiation of £60k
His remortgage 58k from his own house
Will it be still transferable?
If remortgage charge falls on him
I get yo sell the house his houseAsma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
60k cash settlement agreed at final hearing last year.
But im wondering can i have the house in his name to my name i can sell get my 60 plus interest
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

What did he do with the £58,000

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Thats what we wanted to ask him at final hearing for him to be cross examined.
He was threatened by judhe if we don't negotiate then 2 houses will end up in fraud.
So we negotiated 60k cash.
We could not ask him
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

If the house is mortgaged it is no use to you sadly as it cannot be transferred

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, if the house is not transferable by ex brothers if the judge refuses to order the house to my name then what could be next option?
Money?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
The judge we had very strict i do not have the confidence that judge willingly order the house to be transfered.
Either ex pays money or faces cross examination.
What do you think?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I think he will have to admit what happened to the £58,000

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, this will be the last stage if the ex's brother property is not transferable.
If judge is unable to change the order that ex orders the house to be transfered.
If it has to go back re trial then ex will be forced to be cross examined.
My fear is that i will lose. I will not get my settlement.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You will get something I am certain

Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I am sure you will get there - he does not wish to go before the Judge

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
For his own sake i do hope he does.
As he is paying high legal fees £2700.
Ex will to pay his legal fees. Than my settlement.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I hope so for your sake - you need this ended

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
His not letting this end. He can afford fees.
His solicitor is making alot of money.
I cant afford paying.
His doing all this just to make me suffer.
Not for long now all is closing on him.
He has to settlement this.
As you rightly said he faces judge and maybe prison
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Do you think he wants to end it?
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I hope so

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Do you think he will settle matter?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I hope so

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If he doesnt then i will make sure judge orders the house if not ex faces a big purnishment
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I am sure the Judge will not be happy with him

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, if he doesnt want me to make sure he doesnt face judge. Ex has to finish this. He only has 2 weeks for the TR1 to be signed by brother.
If that fails then we go back.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Exactly

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, i have no choice is to declare myself bank cruptcy. I am unable to pay even the minimum payment per month.
Its costing me £32 a months.
Who should i seek advice on bank cruptcy?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, or shall i wait for the outcome of the transfer?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Wait for the next two weeks

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
My day seems like 100 days for me. I just cant wait for all this to be over.
I have logged with police.
They also will write to my landlord to recommend me to be rehoused.
For my safety.I just hope its sorted my housing to be sorted too.
I am overly stressed
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I hope it will be over soon for you

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, i am anxious of some people who are over powering.
They make me anxious my depression goes worse.
My family solicitor i feel has let me down too.
Shes also causing more stress to me by giving ex 3 weeks.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

It is stressful but hold on

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, you are helping me keep going.
It is not nice feeling i feel people who around me are envious about me.
I hate that feeling
I want to leave start fresh
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

i know you do

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, how do i manage all this?
People making my life challenging i just want to be rehoused in a safe place.
Professionals are going over the top about my safety and well being
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I can understand that

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I can understand if the police and women's aid they are worried.
Why is other agencies too worried?
My issue is area. Do you think my landlord association help me to be rehoused?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Few of professionals are not understanding that i need to be rehoused completely outside Birmingham.
Its the area my issue. Its not just up and go to a refuge.
What would be your advice for me to tell these professionals?Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, do you think i will be re housed or shall i seek private accommodation?
I am waiting for Gp, police report.
I feel my crisis worker is putting restrictions on my case is not to be rehoused
Many thanks?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Wait and see love

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, not too long now. In 2 weeks we will know about the transfer. In few weeks i will be more clearer position about my housing situation.
I am just sitting tight now.
If its not good news unfortunately family solicitor will have no matter back.
The current offers at the moment are coming as 55k-60k nothing above.
For that property price range.
Is that ok?
My ideal price to sell 65k
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Fingers crossed then

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, i am happy ex is losing out. Because indirectly his paying high fees to his solicitor.
That is one gain for me.
His losing more than me
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Indeed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Regardless his paying the cost. He has to get tr1 signed times ticking on.plus it will also cost him more money to get an advocate from back home to sign.
Its all his loss.
He is being taught a big lesson
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

He is indeed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, so i just sit back watch his drama how much can he carry on.
He will have to face the music.
His already is but his facing more now he has a strict time scale.
He deserves it
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

He does indeed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, if we dont have the tr1 signed by middle of next week.
should my solicitor do chase the otherside up?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Not until the three weeks are up

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
The 3 weeks will be up 08-08-16.
Cant she make the application to take matter back to court earlier just in case ex fails to provide tr1?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

No she needs to wait

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Why cant she? If they fail to obtain the Tr1 then its prepared instead of wasting time.
I still have no confidence tr1 will be sent to my solicitor in 2 weeks.
If she waits they will want more time then will she have to?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
As the way they are just to waste time they will seek more time from her
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Still better to wait - otherwise you are charged for unnecessary work

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Ok it does make sense.
If it takes longer than 3 weeks. Should we still wait regardless how many weeks it takes?
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

That could be forever so there has to be a balance

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, after 3 weeks i will request my solicitor to contact the otherside of thier position.
If they need more time or not
I think its reasonable request
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent approach

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If they need more time. I think it means they are not able to get signed tr1 from brother. Its reasonable given time that she should take matters back to court without any further delay
Asma Begum
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Unless they have another explanation then yes

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, if its a reasonable which is out of their control to do with signing to postage delay. Or they are not able locate the brother.
I am sure ex will show a reason of delay.
The more longer it takes better for him.
His solicitor gets more money.
I am sure the way he is it will not be easy to get tr1 signed off brother.
My clear view is witjout any further delay of time given. Its in our interest to apply and explain the court clearly ex husbands intentionsAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Yes that is all very well thought through

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
As she has clearly emailed ex's solicitor last week. She emailed while i was phone to her. She has given them 3 weeks if they fail she applies back.
Its better that sticks to her time frame she has given them.
Not to waste value time. If house is not able to be transferable without the sign of brother.
The reason is ex is that his deliberately not allowing this transfer to go ahead.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You will have to wait a little longer I am afraid

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Well if she doesnt make plans to take matter back after 8th August 16 i will be planning to take it matter to her principal. With all the evidence i have
I have given her time
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I am not willing to wait and if that doesn't work i will complain to SRA.
As i have no money to get a solicitor to act for me.
I will clearly high light her errors
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Wait and see Asma

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I apologise clare, but she has to start the process we have been waiting for way too long.
Me and my solicitor relationship is coming to reach breaking point.
Ex has made a good job of this.
She has to act as she says she would.
I do know its unnecessary work time and money.
Atleast if it goes to SRA i will say i have no legal fees to take matter back they might advise me
I cant pay her a penny if i do not have money to pay her previous legal fees.
I can explain all this to SRAAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

It is a very unusual situation and that has made it difficult to achieve an acceptable result.

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, i only imagine how my solicitor is feeling. She might just say to me she will no longer represent me any more. That could be a possibility.
Shes just clearly waiting for tr1 signed plus the reapplying back to land registry.
Home is not transferable.
Why is she asking me questions thar Asma if house does not transfer in my name what are you going to do?
Why is she asking me?
She should say to me Asma these are your options
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
Good news the other side solicitor confirmed his brother signed tr1. Hopefully tr1 be sent back in the next week or two.
There is progress.
I am glad
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

wow

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
I actually text my solicitor she replied back. She gave me an update.
So she was kind to let me know.
I am shell shocked.
I am relieved
So they know we mean business. We will take matter back so she did warn them the other week.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, are you happy with outcome?
Police refered me ppu unit for non crime dv unit.
I do have crime number
I just want to leave from.here
I dont know what to do
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I would like my housing sorted. Iv requested Gp report.
Its all time consuming.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Only a short while before you will be able to move forward

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hopefully not too long.
As ex does want to end it. As its going to.cost him if goes back court
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

That will be good

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
That i want settle down very soon.
May be start a family.
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I am planning moving from Birmingham
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Good idea

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare since this morning i am feeling ever so heavy headed.
It like the room is moving. Losing my balance feeling.
I wonder i am feeling like this?
Could it be anything serious?
Asma.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Possiblt a panic attack - but see your doctor this week

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
I thought it might be vertigo. I have had these symptoms before.
I am going to start gym from next week.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

that sounds good

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, yesterday i did stress management and well being course yesterday
Also this morning confidence building.
All these courses have benefited me.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Also Thursday i have booked boxercise class.
Next week one day course nail and mani cure class.
I am so lookin forward to
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
3 weeks elapeses next Tuesday. If tr1 not received i am hoping my solicitor will say Asma i will be making an application.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Let us hope that is not needed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
To be honest nothing suprises me with ex behaviour.
All i know its going against him.
He will pay the consequences whichever direction he goes.
Court or Tr1
He cant be trusted with anything at all.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Exactly

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Just wondering IF ex husband brings the wife over from abroad will my settlement be affected? Eg transfer of house?
He is very clever his probably in process of bringing wife over
Thats why his prolonging this transfer
Asman
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

No it will not effect anything

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
Such a relief to know. I am pleased. Thank you.
Housing Manager offered me an appointment tomorrow at 12pm. About my consideration to move to an area which is safe.
The PC that took my statement has i am hopeful has emailed my landlord.
My Gp has done a report.
Hopefully i will know tomorrow wether i will be considered a move to an another area.
I am feeling bit nervous.
I am hoping i am be considered.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent news

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If you were my solicitor clare and ex did not provide tr1 by next week which last date.
Please tell me the truth what would you do?
Ideally?
After all this shaninigans ex has played what would you do?
Many thanks
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I do not have enough knowledge of what the exact position is - but I would avoid going back to court if there was any other way

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I think maybe seeking advise from my family solicitor's principle?
He may have other options. Instead of taking matter which will incure cost for me.
Can that be an option?
Knowing what ex is like it could take another few more weeks for the tr1 to arrive.
She doesn't even want to take it to her principal for second opinion.
I am basically stuck
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

So long as it arrives - preferably without further expense!

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
From my side? Same her principal say same thing wait a bit longer?
That might be his only advice.
If my solicitor chases up the other side end of next week ask them when are they likely to receive.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Good idea

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, my solicitor did say to me if they do not recieve tr1 by end of this week then she will make application early next week.
She wants me to email up to date benefit letter end this week.
They have failed to meet dead line.
If that fails the tr1 and house is not going to be transfered.
Then instead of applying she can maybe ask his solicitor for his client to pay the full money settlement by certain date.
If that also fails then matter goes back
Atleast she has tried everythingAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Yes she has

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
His solicitor is very clever his making more money off ex.
The silly man does not understand that he the one who is losing out.
There is no way out. His in the pipe line of going back to court if transfer and money fails.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Exactly

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare, i have had a thought as i am not able to pay barrister or solicitor work cost at all. Is there no other alternative Than taking back?
Could she not ask for second opinion from her firm principle if she is not able to i am more than happy to speak to her principal.
Shall i ask her the questions?
I simply cant afford anymore costs money which i do not have
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Wait until you have some news

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Ex husband solicitor informed to my solicitor that his client (ex husband) is going to his office today with tr1.
No news that they sent it or not.
As they have of this week early next week deadline.
They both getting the pressure!!
Taking matter back with a barrister in my opinion is not in my best interest.
If there is no good outcome
It has been a year this month ex not paid my full settlement or transfer house.
One long year.
His solicitor and him have managed
to drag it this long
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Not good news my current housing association landlord would not consider be to me moved outside of Birmingham.
But they are willing to rehouse me in birmingham area.
I am disappointed
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

baby steps - moving across Birmingham would help

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Is my housing association following right policy?
Why cant they offer me outer birmingham region?
As they do have properties up north
As they being fair?
They are not able to transfer me out of Birmingham
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You can always appeal

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I feel they policy are too strict.
They are willing to move safer place in birmingham but not out of Birmingham
Its so sad
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
How do i appeal? Who can i write to?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

The Housing Association

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
As i did have 1.1 meeting with housing association manager his strictly told me they cant offer outside Birmingham area.
Shall i write to his above manager?
On what grounds can i appeal on?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
His view is that i am not in high risk i am a potential risk.
That i do not meet their threshold.
But i am confused he is willing to rehouse me in the Birmingham region but not outside.
As they do have properties in the north area.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Simply write and ask that the matter be reconsidered

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
i have spoken to the housing manager's above manager. She is looking into refer me to DV schemes.
Which housing manager should have discussed that option with me which he didn't.
The association manager will be looking in to this she says she will get back to me by end of today.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Good

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
Family solicitor is getting forms ready to put the otherside on notice.
Ex's solicitor said to my solicitor they sending tr1 today
I just hope housing association manager she considers my request transfer out of Birmingham.
Their main reason is the i am potential risk. They has not been any incidents since i move current house.
I am feeling quite apprehensive
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I hope they dont turn me down
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Stay positive - things are moving

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clare,
I have sent you the tr1.
What is your view. Is this sufficient for land registry?
Many yh
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Many thanks
The tr1 seems like it's signed by ex ithink it's fraud. My solicitor thinks so too
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Let us hope that it is accepted

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare in your view will the tr1 be accepted? If not then we have an option is to ask for the money,
And we will submit thathe ex has signed tr1 by deception
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I am afraid that all you can do is wait and see

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
For ex if he is lucky then it will be accepted if not. His is big trouble.
We will have strong case against him.
I see good outcome for me
What ever happens it's looking favorable to me
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Indeed it is

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Ex and his solicitor are not aware what we are planning to do if the transfer of house fails
I have had an offer of 65,950 cash buyer.
But I am not sure because it's still going through the transfer process.
There is still risky with land registry
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

They will learn!

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
We will make them learn!!.they going learn the hard way.
Just few more weeks now then we start the process.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Absolutely

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, I received an email from Housing Association Manager she apologies delay in getting back to me but she said she will call me this morning.
I am getting nervous if she states we cant rehouse outside of Birmingham.
Do I just accept this?
I can't take it any further?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Ask her nicely if there is any right of appeal

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Ok I will ask her nicely. I can't fully understand why they can't rehouse me out of Birmingham.
As they do have properties.
Why i do not meet criteria. Her collegue clearly states that I am potential risk.
He would consider only birmingham
His had all letters from police, doctor, Women's aid.
Why does he still feel I am not eligible for another area?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Not good news. Housing Manager said they do not have properties available here or outside Birmingham.
Not the news I wanted
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
I asked her nicely in an email is their right to appeal.
I have no options is look at other housing associations.
Or look at private.
Asma.
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare are you online?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Sadly you have done all that you can

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
The estate agent is not too happy as he says that he feels his wasting time petrol paying staff for the sell of the property.
The cash buyer is ready to buy but this transfer is taking long time.
Estate agent said for to get my conveyancing solicitor to call him wants more clarity.
It's added more pressure on my solicitors and ex too
All this delay is because of ex husband and his solicitor delay.
This the second estate agent i will lose and prospective buyer
I do not know what to do
The housing association I might consider complainAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

They just to hold on a little longer

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
hope so!! It's still not 100% confirmed that tr1 is sufficient Transfer will go ahead
Such a difficult position
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, do I need to sign to tr1?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

NO

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Oh ok why?
My signature not required?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Because it is not always necessary for the person acquiring the property to sign

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare thats ok. Good so I dont need to travel long distance to my solicitor office in London or Coventry to sign
Thank you for this information. I am bit relieved.
I just hope the tr1 is accepted land registry do not raise issues
Fingers crossed
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Yes fingers crossed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
My solicitor did not receive the tr1 yet maybe tomorrow.
He did say like last time when they applied in June.
The same process I will need sign forms
This week will go just waiting for TR1 and my sign.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Fingers crossed that it arrives soon

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I get annoyed when I have to call my conveyancing all the time.
I called i asked him that tr1 come he said yes it has.
He has to get an opinion from his collegue then arrange for tomorrow for me to sign.I just get annoyed when he doesn't have the common sense to call let me knowAsma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

He may have been busy

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
To be honest his always like that. My family solicitor she's well at communication.
I guess all lawyers nothat same
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare ex solicitor made an error in the tr1 form.
He been cheeky he didn't show us second page of tr1 form.
When he watsapp to my solicitor.
He ticked wrong box. He ticked that house is sold under monetary value.
He should have ticked no money involved
That's shows his solicitor lack of knowledge
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Typical

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
I emailed both family and convenience solicitor for not to submit application until I do not see the second page of tr1.
I want to see how much amount they have put in.
If above £1 consideration then I will not go ahead with transfer.
Somthin is dodgy from ex solicitor Side
They think we are thick like them.
We have more knowledge than them
I am not stupid.
There is somthjnh not right. I want clarification from my solicitor before he reapplies
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You need to let them try again first

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
But the solicitor didn't put a figure.
My conveyancing said any amount they put in will raise alarm Bells to land registry.
So they said th best option is direct tr1 From Brother without any monetary value.
So it doesn't make these complicated.
I understand where my solicitor is coming from.
He says why should I even pay £1.
It's the otherside solicitor making it complicated.
Does this make sense?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
Its sorted. Other side solicitor given permission for the second page of tr1 to be amended with 0 amount of value.
I am relieved the application will be submitted either today or Monday.
At last
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent news

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
It will take hopefully few weeks then one week for the registry.
3 weeks altogther.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Good

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If that is then refused. Then we have no option is take matter court. Ex will be in more trouble and it will be costly.
But we have very good grounds of taking matter back.
Either he pays 60k plus interest or face going behind bars
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Let us hope it goes better than that

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Me too. I do hope so too. But just in case if house cant be transfered then ex got more to lose than me.
The way his put us all through all this hardship and waste time.
I do hope he gets purnishment he deserves.
For destroying everything.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
My conveyancing solicitor view is 50/50 chance.
That the tr1 looks dodged. Brother not correctly signed by solicitor witness. No stamp. It just looks like basic sign.
I knew this might happen.
They will still apply regardless .
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
My family solicitor might give other side few more weeks to get correct one.
But they are not going to ask for this.
My view is they should apply what ever thr outcome
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Well they have to give it a go

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Instead of applying couldn't they simply request the otherside to obtain the correct sign witness stamped from the brother back home
If they apply they raise issues.
My solicitor will put in application that a solicitor In UK which is ex solicitor is acting for his brother
Will this be sufficient?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I think they are going with the best option

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
The Second option that I stated in my previous question?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

There is no point in trying that - work with this one first

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
That's my view they don't listen to me my solicitors they just going ahead with the second option.
I think they need try to get the correct sign tr1 by brother and signed by witness solicitor.
They just going for the second option.
They are not communicating with other side solicitor which is very upsetting and frustrating.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I think they are being realistic about what is achieveable

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare I have confidence tr1 will be accepted now. As ex husband solicitor is technically representing ex husband brother.
Also his solicitor emailed my solicitor giving his permission to amend the tr1.
So basically ex husband solicitor kicked himself now on the foot.
If ex brother solicitor ever in future tries to sue land registry I doubt he ever will.
Ex husband solicitor and his firm will be liable.
Asma.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

That is right - stay positive!

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
My solicitor are doing there upmost best to resolve this. I am looking positive and its all going in right direction.it's all going to end very soon
I am hoping in few weeks be good news
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

I hope so

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If that don't work ex husband will be ordered to provide the correct tr1.
It could take weeks from abroad.
So ex will be given time frame to provide.
But once it's application submitted to court im hopin we dont need to.
It's going to cost ex more money.
Anything to avoid court.
It's going be costly for ex back home to pay for lawyer etc....
Around £500 to 1k.
Good for him
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Let's hope!

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
If this current application not accepted then that will be our next option.
Again more time wasting. Weeks going.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, I have taken the coil out now. Now I am planning to settle down start family.
Soon as i know the outcome of the transfer i will making plan to move.
I do hope it's goes all to plan.
No issues come from land registry
Asma.
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Fingers crossed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare will my settlement affect if I was to settle out with new partner?
The house transfer?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

No nothing will be changed

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Ok. Next few weeks will be crucial. Ex and his solicitor deliberately dodged the tr1 just to waste time.
I hope it wont come to that. But if no joy they wI'll have to get it done correctly by brother.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, my eldest son shows excuses not to have contact with me. I think it's his father who is stopping and brain washing him
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Very likely - but there is no action that you can take regarding it

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, it's best to leave and move on with my life.
My 6 children have. Iv moved on.
I can't deal with anything to do with ex and my.son
I am.moving forwrd now
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Well done

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare,
My son informed me that sw called his father and she said to ex that they are going to give contact dates for my eldest daughter.
It's really good news.
They will be given dates
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
My son told me. His dad called social worker.
But I wI'll call social worker jusy to make sure.
I can't trust his dad as Far as I can throw him.
It's better to ask social worker to make sure.
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi clate,
Confirmed Social worker that she will start to resume with my son dad and and my son and my daughter togther.
Which is really good news. My daughter has an advocate and her last review meeting was positive.
I gave my photp social worker now she will do some work on my day daughter next month.
Its all lookin positive.
I am.happy
Asma.
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, are you online?
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Excellent news

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, another good news the adoption support worker. My two youngest Boys will write to me in October. Once I recieve the letter they will support me to write contact to my boys.I am looking for it. Things are moving slowly.Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

That is really great news

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
It's going in the right direction. How am I goin maintain contact with my daughter and my son?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You will find a way

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, my previous solicitor did warn me if I stay in West Midlands likely it will be same guardian We had in care proceedings and recent proceedings . I was advised to have solicitors involved soon as I am pregnant.
They will put unborn child protection plan still if the LA wherever I live outside West Midlands. If they are concerned of risk of harm might happen they might issue proceedings against me.
Her concern is that in that last proceedings judge and guardian concerned I have not accepted findings.
My past history may have an impact.
I will have to move frim West Midlands soon as possible.What do you think?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

You must move

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, in my heart I knew all this before hand. But just to clarify I asked my previous solicitor.
I think soon as I know outcome of transfer.
I will be making plans to move as soon as possible.
I think I asked you before where will be safe area for me to move.
To satisfy the LA avoid back to court.
For the LA not to initiate proceedings against me.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Outside the Uk

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, what is major risk staying with in UK?
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, as my previous solicitors in the UK have not advised me to go outside UK. How come they are not advising me to leave outside UK?
I slightly confused.
Many thanks
Asma
Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare are you online?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 5 months ago.

Wherever you are in the Uk there is a risk that Social Services will intervene - only by going outside the UK can you avoid that

Customer: replied 5 months ago.
Hi Clare, why are not my solicitors advising me to go outside uk?
Many thanks
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Because it is extreme advice

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Why don't they advise me on this extreme advise?
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

You need to ask them and not me I am afraid

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare good news house is transfered in my name on 17th August it's been registered..
What a relief. Fantastic news.
Soon they receive the papers they will start the selling progres
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, are you online?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

What wonderful news

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Thank you Yes aftr 3 years of stress all coming to end . I read report from my eldest daughter it is very very positive. My daughter advocate due to my daughter wishes and feeling it's for my daughter legal right to have a family life.
The LA will resume contact in September first with dad and brother for 20min.
Then myself. Another good news.
It's all working out its going in right direction.
I am happy.
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare I am confused which country I can emigrate to?
What the medical facilities be.
Also If I do return back to UK Ss may get involved
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

I cannot answer these questions - they are personal to you

If you have further children in the Uk there will be Social Services involvement from prior to the birth

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, to be honest I am relieved now the outcome of children done and ex divorce and property done.
I just want to sell house clear all my debts.
I just a need long break
I need a holiday. I just want my freedom.
I want to enjoy my.life. just need a clear break.
Focus on myself my health well being.
All this been bad trauma for me I still not overcome.
I need to breath
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

That is very sensible

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, to be honest I do not want a child if it brings me more emotional distress.
If social services get too much intense involved then I will be able to handle assessments courts hearings meetings.
I already cannot recover from my past experience.
I need a break for Atleast a year.
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
I mean I WILL not be able to cope with there involvement
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Very wise

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare Atleast one year I will give myself. To look after myself care take good care of myself.
Also if I do end with partner who is supportive hopefully no mental health issues. No issues with SS or police.
Make a good reasonable realistic plan
That's a good way to startIs that good start ? Firstly enjoy my freedom.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Excellent idea

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Finally the house is registered to my name. The sale process is starting.
I.hope sale goes all smoothly.
My family solicitor is really happy for me it has been long journey.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

So very pleased for you

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Thank you so much. You have been very very helpful and kind guiding me forby he past 3 years.
I am finally in a position that matter with my children are over. Now this financial matter finally concluded.
I just want to focus on positive contact with my older son. Also if when Ss re introduce contact with my eldest daughter.
I am still not confident when it will start.
But I am still thinking which can area can i move to.
I am still undecided.
London too expensive.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Maybe Manchester - a little further North

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, Thank you I am looking for place.
I have given house to another estate agent.
The previous agent looked dodgy. He couldnt find buyers.
I just need to quick sale asap.
So I can make plans to move.
Up north any other places further up north?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Why not!

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Sorry Clare I didn't understand what you mean by why not?
Did you mean about the area?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

You can go as far as you want!

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi clare i am getting highly stresed about how long it will take to sell house.
As the previous estate agent let me down
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Have faith - you have got this far!

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, between now and selling how do I keep myself mind body busy?
I feel like my head is banging stuck in the house.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Start planning the future!

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, where do I start from?
Im totally lost. I can't do anything until I do not sell the house.
I can't move or do anything until I am finanancial stable.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

No but you can plan

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Where do I start from thats my main issue?
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

With what YOU want to do - maybe more education?

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
I would like to go visit day trips. Last month I went to Weston-super-Mare last week I went cinema with my son
This coming Wednesday I am going to scarborough beach.
I just want to travel visit places
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Then plan where you will visit when you have the money

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, I am making plans to move. 1. Should I move in a 2 or 1 bedroom?
2. It will be likely private accommodation. 3. Need to look at my budget and area where I would like to move. The distance I need to consider because of contact with my son and if the LA resume contact.
What is available in the new area.
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Tomorrow I will give the house to another estate agent to try sell house.
I am doing all I can to tell sell house asap
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

You are doing well

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, I just want closure. I just want to start a fresh. Move on with my life. But i think I need some support from an independant professional.
But I do not knoe who to approach?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

What about a counsellor?

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi clare
I went to scarborough beach yesterday day trip. It was way too far. I didn't like the journey. But it was nice scenery.
But I did get some racial comments from English people. I have never experienced that before first time.
That actually put me off from white pple.
Yorkshire are all white people. I would never visit or live there ever.
I feel really isolated the change of this country people.
It's so sad.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Brad ford and Barnsley are very multi cultural

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
you are right I do not want to go to area too multicultural because of car insurance, people are too nosey. Also Bradford is very crowded like where I am in Small Heath Birmingham. I would like a balance of people. Not too many Asian culture driving road parking is a total nightmare.
I am still very confused where to move.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Well I am sure you will find the right place

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare I gave house keys to another estate agent in Walsall Bairstow Eves they are really good service. They have high fees. But they are sure they will be able to sell asap. With my desire price. I am getting txts email every 30 min of viewing dates and times.
They are confident they can sell house.
The manager says i am in good hands what does that mean?
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

It mean he beleives they can do a good job for you

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare,
The manager and other staff members are hoping to sell the property by this weekend. They have 9 viewings this Saturday.
Fingers crossed. They seem confident they can find buyer. As I explained to them I want quick sell so I can put closure and get rid ASAP.
The fees too high but as long I can get desired amount it does not make difference to me.
Do you think it could be sold with in a month? I will be so happy
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
I need to start plan to move!!
If this house sells soon as we expect
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

I hope so

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare,
My son says to me by telephone conversation that his father keeps on telling him that ''your mom should sell house for 75k she should give it to you straight away''!
Meaning I need to give funds to my son!!.
Why is ex saying all this to my son?
Has ex gone mentally unstable? Or is he in cloud 9?
Again as usual trying to control my son and me.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

He is just stirring - ignore him

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
best thing I am doing is ignore. That's the best way.
I have other things to think about
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, I am slowing planning place I would like to move.
I am starting to plan what is mainly important to move is affordable accommodation area facilities doctors hospitals school sure start courses etc....
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

That sounds very positive

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Thank you it's best to start now just in case house gets sold. It's good to prepare.
As things are moving slowly.
Asma
Customer: replied 4 months ago.
Hi Clare, I contact the adoption team. I spoke to the post option staff. She said she will send the letter that the adopters have written last year the settling in letter. That was the sent to previous social worker but the SW did not bother to give to me.
The nice lady I spoke to she will send by post today. And next week I will see her and she will assist to responde back to the letter.
The October is letter is due next month. The adopters will be writing on the children's behalf instead of the children writing to me. Because of their age as they get older they might decide to write.
It's my son birthday today he will be 8 years old. The first adopted son. I just pray they are both doing well.
It will be nice to read about them how they have settled in. Nxt month letter will be important.
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

More good news

Customer: replied 4 months ago.
it is.
I just hope I can maintain and sustain this letter box yearly.
As it is very important for me and my children to be aware that I have not abandoned them?
That I am trying my upmost for them to be in my memories.
I am doing my best to keep myself healthy safe care for myself building my life in positive and happy manner.
That I have moved on. I am stronger mentally and physically
Asma
Expert:  Clare replied 4 months ago.

Good