Hi, thank you for your question. When was the court order made and was it a final order?
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It would appear that they are trying to get around the fact that the Order was only made this year by having the Grandparents asking or contact instead
However asking for four days is simply not reasonable - although holiday contact and time on birthdays and boxing day is not unreasonable.
It would appear that you have worked hard to keep your child in touch with his grandparents so the next step is to write to their solicitor saying that you are willing to discuss holiday ocntact with the Grandparents using family mediation.
You may also wish to point out that having been absent from the child's life for five years a full shared care arrangement is not appropriate - and that you do not understand why you are being threatened with unrealistic time limits.
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details