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I am afraid that in order to make this change you will either need the agreement of your ex - or you will have to apply to the Court for permission to do this.
It may help if you discuss it with your daughter first as she may be able to bring some pressure to bear.
If you decide not to make the application then you cannot ask her to account for her spending - but your daughter can - inso far as if her mother does not fund her then she can apply to the court for maintenance
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