Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further informtaion first
How much is the house worth and how much is outstanding on the mortgage?
How long have you been/were you in the army for and are there any children involved?
How much is the property worth now
What income do you each have
I am afraid that the length of the marriage means that a 50/50 division is the starting point for the financial settlement and it is unlikely that the courts would stray far from that in the event of a dispute.
Having said that if you take account of the costs of sale the equity in the property is minimal - so you may manage with just a Pension Sharing Order
I am sorry not to give better news - please ask if you need further details
You are most welcome - I hope all goes well