Under the law anything that either party to a marriage gets by way of a gift or an inheritance is not treated as matrimonial property and is exempt from any divorce. In addition to that the property which is taken to account as matrimonial property is restricted to anything acquired up to the date of separation. So your future inheritance would be excluded. As regards ***** ***** including the issue of residence of and contact with children, that could be dealt with by a negotiated written agreement between the two of you. If you are both able to reach an agreement in this way it will save you a lot of money in lawyer's fees. I hope that helps. Please leave a positive rating so that I am credited for my time.