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Family Law - I have issues regarding contact with my 12 year

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Family Law - I have issues regarding contact with my 12 year old son
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Customer: Yes - I have a court order for the last 11 years, this has been updated twice (extending contact each time). I had to discipline my son two weeks ago for bad behavior - he has since said he no longer wishes to see me - ex partner is behind this decision
Submitted: 8 months ago.
Category: Family Law
Customer: replied 8 months ago.
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Expert:  Harris replied 8 months ago.

Hi, thank you for your question. In what way did you discipline him?

Customer: replied 8 months ago.
Some background:
Ex partner has been very hostile to contact from the start. Every time I have taken the matter to court when she has breached a court order I have re-established contact and extended it. 3 Years ago she was getting my son (8 at the time) to say he did not want contact - when CAFCASS reported on this they established that mother was forcing my son to say this.The issue around the discipline was very minor - I had extended family to lunch, there would be 3 sittings for lunch. My son had originally agreed to sit at the second sitting with the other children his age. When the first sitting took place he became annoyed as he then wanted to sit with an older cousin - I explained this was not now possible as people had started eating. He became very angry and caused a scene and went to his room - I followed him and said in a stern voice "you are being unreasonable and would appreciate you not embarrassing me, the older cousin will sit with you again at the second sitting, come downstairs when you have calmed down". I left it at that, he came down later and everything was fine.My ex-partner has taken this incident and manufactured it into something much worse - she claims I shout at my son a lot and he no longer wishes to see me and stopped all contact.My specific question is I need to take this matter to court to re-establish contact with my son - it is likely my son will say he does not want contact but as was the case 3 years ago I would be confident a good CAFCASS officer would spot that he is being manipulated by his mother.In your experience how will this play out - I am considering fighting for sole residency on the basis that ex partner is manipulating my son causing emotional harm, and that only sole residency can establish contact with both parents.Views?

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