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The law says that children should have a close relationship with both parents - and the courts will enforce that - but there is no requirement for care to be shared 50/50 between parents
You are correct - the primary need of young children is for stability and security and the arrangement your ex is proposing gives them neither.
An offer of alternate weekends (assuming he has suitable accommodation) plus one or two evenings in the week and up to half of the school holidays would be reasonable at this stage.
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