Thank you for your question
My name is ***** ***** I am sorry for your loss
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
I take it that the chidlren are simply saying they will take you to court?
Please do not worry.
They have no right to the house and there is no way that they can take if from you.
Your husband has made sure that you are secure.
You do not even have to speak to them if you do not wish to - just organise the funeral the way you wish to do it and ignore them completely if you wish to.
If they try to enter the house call the police
Please ask if you need further details
You are welcome - I hope things get a little better when they calm down