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Kasare, Solicitor
Category: Family Law
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Experience:  Solicitor, 10 yrs plus experience in civil litigation, employment and family law
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I was on a night out like 5 years ago and have sex with a

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Hi I was on a night out like 5 years ago and have sex with a girl she got pregnant and I found out that I'm the father of the baby, I whould like to contribute for the child and the mum does not want me to see the child at all, but I realy want to be the father and see my child every day ,so please Tell me what should I do
Submitted: 9 months ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

Thank you for your question

My name is Clare

I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first

How do you know you are the father of the baby?

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
Because a week latter she told she was pregnant and she did not have sex with no one
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

She would not have known after just a week.

Have you been speaking to her recently?

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
No! But she told me she have not had sex with any one for 2 mouths
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

She may not have told you the truth

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
Ok ,but I'm sure im the father of the child ,he looks just like me
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

Have you asked the mother if she will agree to a DNA test?

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
No I didn't ask for DNA as I'm 100 per cent sure the child is mine , she is maried and she's so scare of her husband to find out that the child is not his ,and she changed phone number,blocked me on Facebook and move house ,so therefor I don't have any conctats and don't know where she lives
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

When did you last see here?

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
It's been 5 years
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

So how do you know all these things?

Customer: replied 9 months ago.
A friend of mine used to work with her, and she visits the place once or twice a mouth
Expert:  Clare replied 9 months ago.

So there is no realistic reason to believe the child is yours and you have not asked the mother about it?