My solicitor wrote into the last order that she was to present us with the application for ILR and the deadline for this was almost 2 weeks ago but her solicitor has still not complied with the order.
My concern is that if she is presenting false evidence to the home office it is at my expense as a father. If it is unchallenged, what is on my file? That I am an abusive person? How will that reflect on my application for residency? If I win residency is it on my record I should be watched because I am supposedly a purveyor of violence?
I am also wondering how it will look to the family court if I challenge it. My intention is not to get her deported but to have them investigate and at least change it from the allegation. My thought is that if I just call the home office to check what has been said and point out the facts and they can take it from there.. Do you think that will be understood by the family court?
My final question is that if I do speak to the home office with a view to giving my side of the story and they investigate her do you think the family court will look badly on this or understand it is a normal thing for me to do under the circumstances?