He normally has her after school on a wednesday until 7pm and he collects her from school on a friday and returns her to school on monday morning for me to collect her from there.
I usually pick her up for round 4 hours, every other saturday afternoon. I wouldnt normally have her at the weekends that is mostly him while i mostly have her throughout the week.
Yes im finding it extremely difficult. By the time she comes home from school its the same daily routine of dinner, homework, bath, story, bed. There is not a lot of quality time there except for the school holidays really. Like I say I would rather she be with me, the main reason i have been going along with this joint custody arrangement was purely so she could see me and her dad fairly, but it does not benefit me in the slightest.