Sorry, ignore the previous post. I was looking at children's ages when you split. Brain fade!
What is the basis of your suspicion?
my suspicions are based on the fact that my ex would never reveal his earnings during the 13 years we were together or after our split , he left me with debts that he incurred but seems to have had disposable income to spend on many foreign holidays, renovation to his home whilst my children and myself have been living in a mortgaged sub-standard house.
would it be worth a try contacting the CSA ? im not sure what an existing assesment means but i did have contact with them in the passed however i didnt pursue a claim as i feared my ex would use this and it would impact on the girls.
is this a regret i will have to live with?
are you able to reply to my last message ?