Should I go to the police to complain about his harassment. They have been involved on several occasions in domestic altercations with this man, of which one was logged as occasioning Actual Bodily Harm. Unfortunately he persuaded me to drop the charges. He has also assaulted my estranged husband but no action was taken as there were no witnesses.
Should I advise them of my forging his signature on a number of occasions, or should I follow my husbands advice and gather information.
The bank have still not made any further attempt to talk to me.
Apart from his phone calls threatening the horses I have, the stables and telling me that the police and the fraud squad were involved (aren't they one and the same) and telling me that "at the end of this you'll be paranoid..." nothing has actually happened.
Trouble is no one else has heard him on the phone, so there's no independent witness to his antics.
Nothing further from the bank still - Obviously signing cheques payable to me drawn on his bank account was not the smartest thing I've done - but the bank haven't contacted me !
Should I be concerned ?? Should I do anything or just wait for developments if any...
No allegations have been made by the bank.
He has told me that he has told the bank that he thinks I have.
As far as I know there is at least one cheque - the one the bank rang me and queried on their only contact with me... I told them it was to reimburse me for a deposit for a riding holiday I'd paid on his behalf !
Just to say "thank you" for your advice ... It rather confirms what my estranged husband said, if rather less colourful... I guess I should just lie low and wait and see what happens...
He's gone quiet for the moment and i still have had no further contact from from the bank.