Hi, the child is nearly 2. there is no order in place currently. the ex is named on the cert.
he wants him tomorrow 10-6pm. Alex has never spent a full day with him
contact stopped as ex was being verbally abusive/threatening in front of my son, and bullying me into changing our local agreement. He has now moved house so does have somewhere to take him. However, i have raised serious concerns about his parenting capabilities as he has a history of leaving medicines in reach, leaving hazardous things around and our son has had a few incidents as a result, but none of which required hospital attention thankfully.
He has never shown any interest in our son really and chose to work long hours. He has never had any input with my sons routines and my son does not know him in that capacity despite living in the same house. He saw him for about 15 mins an evening prior to our seperation due to his job and have wholly been the primary carer for our son.
He has made threats to not return the child, which i have expressed to my solicitor. She initially said I need to apply for residence/prohibited steps, but then changed her mind once my ex had a solicitor as there was "minimal risk". To me, there is more than minimal risk of him not being returned.