Thankyou. You should try to resolve matters using family mediation http://www.familymediationhelpline.co.uk/find-service.php
Althoughit is quicker and less confrontational than court it isnt necessarily cheaper
If this fails then she can apply to the court for adefined contact order which will formalise arrangements.The necessary forms are available on the herehttp://www.thecustodyminefield.com/ .
The court will not make a reluctant parent have contact but they do notwant to have.
So, if you want to take the children back earlier, the court will notenforce otherwise.
That doesn't mean that it won't stop your ex being awkward. If she tries tostop contact however, the court will enforce a reasonable amount of contact andif you cannot agree between you. What is happening, the court will decide foryou and then you are stuck with it and you will have to work your way around ityourself. It is a shame that it is come to this, because clearly it has workedwell so far and it would be a shame to waste. What could be thousands of poundsin legal costs over a simple timing issue.
There is no legal solution to sorting out the timing between you if shewill not agree to mediation or it breaks down.
I'm sorry, I wish I could offer you a magic solution, but there is not one.
Can I help further?
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