I would like to know what I can do to prevent her carrying out her threats
What exactly has she threatenedto do? How has she made the threat? Would it be your word against hers? Are hermental health issues documented?
What sort of support do youprovide? How old is your son? Who does he live with?
She has threatened to get in touch with my employers to get me dismissed, convey personal information to my employers and freinds, convey information anout my friends to others. All done verbally so far!
I don't think she has anything but just know she could create a huge amount of embarrement! I think her historic issues are documented, she has been to see a doctor and is now on anti depressents.
My son is 7 and lives with me most weekends. The support I give her is as followings:
The property she which the mortgage is paid for solely by myself
Cash amount circa £500.00 per month
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with regard to her threats youare entitled to protection from this under the Protection from Harassment Actand this then becomes a police matter. Of course, she will deny making thethreats so until she actually does something, then unless you have evidence ofthe threats (text, emails, witnesses, whatever), then it is simply your wordagainst hers and the police are unlikely to do anything unless she has ahistory of such conduct.
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