I do not receive any benefits
yes I do. I realize that it will be my word against my fathers but am hoping that something positive can come out of this.
my father The dwp paid the allowance directly to him
unfortunately, no. I expected him to honour his obligations to me for doing his cleaning and washing etc
I assumed that he would pay me the amount that the DWP sent to him regularly, and although I asked, he always evaded answering me directly and said it would all be mine one day anyway. The investments we made together in 2004 was all amicable and he led me to believe that it would be mine, and so, as there had been no hostility between us I believed him, so, yes, we only verbally agreed
I would like to thank you for trying, maybe I could try and appeal to his better nature, but doubt if that will have any effect.
no thankyou, you have done your best and I appreciate it