I dont work. so I dont have income.
He is IT consultant. Income between £10.000 - 15.000
He loaned money and I loaned money seperatly for his business. Business failed. He used all money. So he decided to IVA for loans plus 2 of my Credit cards. He destroyed my credit but he is paying individual voluntary arrangement (IVA) for since may 2010. 3 years left to pay.
nothing. Before I got married I was a waitress
no i havent
we met 1st of april 2006 then we lived together 8 months. agustos to april 5th 2007.
april 5th 2007 our weddng anniversary. he earns between 10 k to 15 k.
well thats the come my question for compensation from him. thats also usually reminder to him. getting a house for instance. He is a freelance IT consulant. without hesitation he makes good money.
first year of our marriage in 2007 i found out he was paying montly money to his ex-gfriend.. without my knowledge. i found out and she he stopped it. but it took time.
second year in 2008 he wanted to start to his business he loaned £20000 from RBS, I stupidly loaned £25000 from Barclays. plus his own salary he was paying salary to his so called employed people without any business. So business failed. so many unpaid bills..
2009 he tried to paid them unsuccesfully.
2010 he asked my help taking care of finans. open a share accound. and control his regular salary. because of unpaid loans and credit cards he assure me go through“INDIVIDUAL VOLUNTARY ARRANGEMENT”.for 6 years.
with painly i accepted and we paid most bills by the end of the year of 2010. i told him he can make money on his own and i suggested he can find a second job easly. then we agreed second job was gonna be only for saving for future. he didnt keep his promises he started employed a someone to do business again. this time he didnt tell me. he was doing secretly. when i found out i was fed up. so many expenses so many. so i believe there is no saving at all. but if his hidden somewhere he is fooling big time. i still believe he has no large amount of money. i told him he has to support me financially until i re-marry. He said ok.
well there is more details i can give you. money and not having child my main issues with him
i am 46 years old. he is 40 years old.
i had saving about £7000 in HSBC. I used for general needs before and after marriage as I was not able ask money and he did not give me or offer me anything. as you know £25000 loan I took for him. I had also saving £7500 in Turkey when we had so many unpaid bills. I asked my sister to transfer from to turkey to my account so we paid all bills. all my savings before marriage gone
yes yes. and pn my name barclasys card £3400 and American Express £3000 something also currently he is paying