My daughter last moved school in September 2012, at her fathers suggestion as he was unhappy she had not been put in the 'brain accademy' group. I was perfectly happy with the school, but after visiting her current private school could see that she would do better in a class of 10 as opposed to a class of 32 and was happy to pay half the fees. She is perfectly happy where she is and I do not see the point in disrupting her again. He is treating her like an adult, discussing everything with her, and in general creating problems. I have spoken with the Headmistress and she seems to think that the school can pursue him for his half of the fees and as long as I continue to pay my half is happy for our daughter to remain in the school. my main concern is what to do for the best regarding his access to her.
The Court Order says the contact should be on alternate weekends Friday after school until 6pm sunday and one night after school until 6.30pm one week and one overnight mid week stay the following week.
(3 nights a fortnight).
At the moment he picks her up from school thursday night and keeps her until school drop off the following tuesday morning, on alternate weeks.
She would like 50/50 access to us both.
Thank you so much for your help. And yes, she is happy with the current arrangements. I will send him an email to this effect and let you know the outcome.