Thanks for the reply.The house is being sold for 225,000 outstanding mortgage 193,000 fee's are around 5000. i Have emails stating that the 5000 pounds given to my ex already (around april 11) is all she will ever want i had a clean break order drafted but she did not sign it or ask for amendments. I tried contacting her via various means with no reply. The debts are around 23,000 all from the house refurbishment. i also put the 5000 pounds deposit on the house.
Debts in are my name only. We lived together for 2 years in this property but 4years total. 18months of which were in cyprus where i was the sole earner.