yes I sent it in, I have already been asked to pay for your answer?
The allegation, even if proved, will not appear to make any difference tothe outcome of the divorce or the finances.
Whilst I appreciate that this was a terrible experience, it will be yourword against his and it is unlikely that you would be able to produce enoughevidence for a jury to convict him beyond all reasonable doubt. I think itunlikely that he will be prosecuted.
The legislation was enacted not to protect couples that were livingtogether but to prevent spouses who were estranged and could come back afteryears of living apart and, before this legislation, could commit acts of rapeagainst their spouse with impunity.
I appreciate that this is not the answer you wanted but there is no pointin being misleading you.
Can I help further?
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This wasnt what I asked,
I think the comment from my solicitor was unethical - how can he assume my rape was "not that bad" as I managed to continue working.
I feel this is a disgusting comment to have made.
I had to work to pay for my children as my husband has decided to no longer support them - the fact that I would have preferred to have curled up in my bed and hidden from the world was not an option, we commited to school fees, I had to continue paying them alone.
Its the comment from my solicitore rather than if it will gain me more or less money - The money is irrelevent at this point, its the comment belittleing rape within marriage that I have a problem with , I fired him at this popint and now have a new solicitor.
Please may I have your thoughts?
What your solicitor has said is that even if the allegation of rape wasproved, it would not make any difference to the finances because you carried onworking.
You can always complain to the Complaints partner at the firm and to theSolicitors Regulation Authority but to be frank, he is merely stating a factand not an opinion.
I'm sorry, but I cannot give you the answer that you appear to be wanting basedupon the fact that you give
That is what I am trying to do, I wanted an independent view. How can comment on a persons state of being after a rape because they continues to work? was I suposed to stay at home, and not work to pay for my childern.
I wanted an independent view.
You havent been able to give me that
I have given you an independent view. It is simply not the view that youwanted.
He is commenting on your emotional state, although the wording couldprobably be better.
It would have been better if he had made it simply " it has not preventedyour working", however, rather than make that blanket statement some strangereason he added the words in "it does not seem".
To be frank, I think it unlikely that you have much grounds for complaint.
I am not prepared to continue further because you have rated the servicebad because I cannot give you the answer that you want.
Sometimes in law, people are disappointed.
I havent rated the service at all?
I thought I was still talking to you.
Thanks for nothing.
I got an email which gave me a bad rating. It must be a site glitch.
You are still talking to me. What further would you like to know?