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What is the document you're trying to serve please?
order to attend court for questioning
Did you tell her what the document was when you tried to serve it and hand it to her?
I told her that I had a document for her
Yes, okay, but did you tell her it was a Court order?
Okay, then no, this is not going to be good enough for service. When attempting to serve something like this, you should always tell the recipient what it is you're trying to hand to them. Then, if they refuse to accept it, or run away, this would count as good service.
I waved the envelope at her
As it happens, in your case, you're going to have to try and serve it again to be effective. You only have to get near her and tell her what it is. If she doesn't then accept it, this would be effective service still.
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