i accept goods were purchased as i have receipts and goods but not that they were paid for.
i was advised by accountant to request bank/card statements from him but he has never provided them from the beginning, he now says he hasn't got them now after all this time.
do you know if it is possible to obtain copy statements from 2004/5 from the bank?
i accept i would be happy to pay for these items shown on receipts if he will show me the bank statements.
i fear he has used a credit card to purchase them but has not then paid the card company/s. why else would he not want to provide this evidence?
can i stop him from saying that we owe him this money to the 9yr old as it is not proven and this is surely damaging to her and to our relationship with her. i feel that he is doing this to try to make us pay him the money he wants.
no all purchased and receipts genuine but he will not show bank/card statements to prove that he has actually paid for them.
anyone can go to a shop with a card and purchase items but that does not mean that they have paid the card company, therefore they have not paid for those items.
i believe he has dodged from 1 card company to another and another and/or has settled his debt with them for ? ammount or runnaway from the debt and they have been unable to find him.
is it correct that after 6yrs they cannot do anything about it?
these are amongst several of the grey stories he has vaguely banded about.
re. child is there anything i can do to stop him using her to try to pressure us into paying him money?