Gives him parential responsibility, and outlines contact arrangements. I have already given him abit more time than the court papers say. Ie: he was supposed to have him on 1 day over every weekend between 10 and 4pm. I have been flexible with him and he has him from 9am and I say he needs to b bk b4 bedtime at 7. He wanted parential responsibility as he wasnt named on the birth certificate. The reason fot that was he ended the relationship when he found out I was pregnant. When i went to the csa, he decided he wanted contact. The contact with my son is going well. My son came back from his dads on saturday with his hair cut short, and after the last time he had his hair cut i told him not to do it again. He has had a day a week contact for a cpl of months now. If he wanted him over night would he be entitled to that. What sort of time scale would I b looking at for him to stop at his dads? and do I have the right 2 ask to look at my sons sleeping arrangements ie: his bed and room.