I would like a normal week to be that the boys are with me from Saturday evening to Thursday. I have Thursdays off at home with the boys. We would then do an after work handover (as we do currently) to their father who would have them for Thursday night, Friday night (he has some flexibility to work from home on a Friday so I think it makes sense for them to be with him then) and then all day Saturday returning to me for tea-time (6pm) on Saturday.
Do you think this is unfair? We are amicable and trying to work this out by email.
No. He works Monday to Friday. I work Mon-Weds and Friday. Neither of us work weekends at all really. Slightly longer hours than me - he leaves the house at 0745, I leave at 0830. He gets back at 1900-1915 (when he needs to for the boys) I get back at 1830.