he wants to see is baby brother.. the reason for knowing where she lives is soley for emerancy reasons as my health as been up and down In the past 4 years ended up in hospital due to accient at work.. last year several times until they iwas what was causing it. plus when he has been going and wished to speak to him never him or his father reply to my calls. Only to texts i get relies.
plus she live in or around cambridge
yes when he choses to answer it. when he goes i an not allowed to phone only text. do not understand why cause i have never meet or bad monthed her in any shape or form even when i stopped paying the mor/age. didnot give me a penny for his son's welfare. but still expected to have him weither at his address up here or there.but spend all his wages on her and her other 2 children that are not my ex's .
i had to go down that route with him 4yrs ago. when he left us with out a cooker, no boiler for hot water. and trying to force me into selling the house i divorced him in witch he still owe £675 for the cost. court saw myside and i won the house put perents in to delt as they had to co sign in there name for a £15000 he wlked away wih the clothes on his back and the £13000 delt he got himself into in the 18month since he left for her.
the only thing i know about partner is her and her kids name, she does not work, and she lives in the cambridge area.
i had no choice as at the time he stopped payng the mor/age cooker broke and we went 3months ith just microwave and campin cooker. boilr broke so no hot water, i only work 30hrs low wage earner. no food on table unable to cover bills family and friend had to pay for repairs and cover bills. i divorced him wich he still owes £675 for court costs. he tryed to force me in to selling the house so he could have the money. perants had to co sign for a £15000 loan for me. luckly courts were on my side and he only walked away his clothes on his back and th £13000 delt he got in the 18months since he left for me. an so i think you can see i had on going problems all directed at me. but still an accused of some how wanting to harm her. he made me feels i am not allowed to ask any questions about the welfare of my child when he is down there only that he gets on a train with his dad. this is way i need help. it took me untill last week to relise he still controlling me i was with him for 10ys not for 4.5 yrs i am also dealing with a police man
i have spoked to someone to a barrister who deals with family law. she advised and reassured me that i should not be concerned as i have residency where my son is concerned and that he was sending ideal threats.
so your help is no longer required.
csa states £246 per month.(it was £209 it only went up last month) from him. he's on a policemans wage.
however he pays son to have a buses and mobile bill. and has him on average 2/3 days per week.
review was done by ex. may/june. otherwise i would have asked for sept to have them look in to it. csa states they only look into cases once per year. and i have to have evidences he is lying about his take home pay.