She has paid to have the bathroom re-tiled and some cosmetic things done - wall paper in living room etc.
I have been off work with PTSD and been full time carer for our children with my ex working fulltime supporting financially.
I became carer in order to dispose of a private nanny's services there in turn agreeing with my partner at the time that she would pay into my bank what the nanny got paid
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The kids are 2(biologically mine), 5 and 8.
The older children are in full time school - the youngest will be going to nursery as I will need to return to full time work to support myself.
Outstanding is 198k of a property worth circa 200-220k - its on an interest only mortgage
Sorry, is what something I want to do?
I am willing to move out - at present it is the moral and sensible thing o do for the children and their environment...