My husbands house is worth £120,000 at least and he has paid all of the mortgage off when he got a redundancy package three years ago. We have no children together but he has three grown up children all over 25 who don't live with us.
He is making me feel like a stalker in my own home and he has told me I am not welcome here. I feel scared when he comes home incase he starts shouting at me again that I am to get out of the house and starts being verbally abusive again. His comments are very personal and I feel personally attacked by him which has happened several times in our marriage. I am afraid he will throw my belongings out or change the locks or force me to leave with his aggression, verbal abuse and raising his voice/shouting which he denies doing.
My husband owned the house for about 10 years before I met him and he has always paid the mortgage and rates. I have only paid half of all other bills. This is why he sees it as his house and not my home I think. Also what is the equity? Also he has had his will changed so that his three children will inherit the house nbetween them and I will get a lump sum payment of £30,000 he says. I think now his children may see the house as theirs maybe too and that I shouldn't be living in it? They haven't said that buy one of his children is in recovery from heroine addiction and she has been a bit frosty and her tone of voice has had undertones of hostility towards to me recently since he changed his will. I think she now thinks she owns the house.
6 years since we got married. We did not live together before we where married.
I haven't made any to the matrimonial home. He has always paid the mortgage and rates. I only pay towards other bills nothing to do with the property
I lived in a private rental that I paid for myself. I just got a letter this morning from his Solicitor stating that my husband wants me to move out of the matrimonial home in the next seven days. The letter also said it refered to previous correspondence herein which means the last solicitors letter that was sent. It mentions unhappy differences have arisen in the marriage. I am afraid now that if I don't move out he will get a non-mol against me and I could be arrested as he said his solicitor told him he could do this before. It would be his word against mine and I would have to then fight against it in court. I think he will change the locks once I move out as he said he would do this. I will then have to go up to the house with the police to get my stuff at a time that would suit him and me etc. I think I would rather take all of my stuff and put it in my parents for safe keeping. I could perhaps stay in my parents house until the house I am buying comes through as it would save me the price of a b & b. He will say that I have behaved in an aggressive manner towards him to get the non-mol or that I have threatened him because he said that to his solicitor the last time to get the last letter and it is lies as he was aggressive towards me and threatening towards me. He has just got there first re:Solicitors letter.