My son is 13yrs and my daughteris 25yrs. she is currently do her pgt at worcester university, so is a student.
She will reside me me untill furter notice.
Yes 70/30 in my favor. and he wants me to agree in writing, I receive 40% from both pensions. the current values are £42,000.00 and the other is £387,000.00 I have put on divorce papers their will be a pensions share out,
I don't as such, but I haven't been able to pursue a career, only on part time basis, in between having the children. I haven't been able to work since 2006 due to a suiside attempt andcomplete breakdown. My husband now states the last eight years have been a lie and he only stayed for the children. He forgets that in the last eight years with the support of friends and my gp and mental health team I am in a better place. I do still suffer with my mental health, and was diagnosed with arthritis in verious parts of my body, mainly my hands and knees, I had no idea of how my husband felt and as far as i was aware we had a good marriage. I knew something was wrong when i found he had been conversing with women on the internet.He tried to say it was because he was made redundant at 55., ut i found emails from this one particular women, and he was conversing well before he lost his job.
none.only esa allowance, child benefit and tax credits plus £250.00 per month from my husband
He his on Job Seekers Allowence. and the savings are in his name, which are currently paying the mortgage and other bills. The House I am drawing a will for the house to be divided between the children if any things happens to me. He has agreed to pay a lump sum of £4800.00 being a years maintenance of £400.00 per month. Iam 54 yrs and won't be able to use any of the pension warded to me untill i am 55 yrs
£9000.00 at the moment but £1000.00 will go in the next couple of days as my car is currently in a garage for alot of work needed.
We haven't yet received any monies as contracts not signed. we have drawn up a letter and sent to the judge about maintenance, but I don.t have access to the savings account, as in his name.
Credit cards and he is getting 72.00 per week jsa
Notsure about £4000.00
My husband has just informed me that you are the same solicitor who advised him this afternoon.
I have been asked to look at this for you but to be honest, Iwould if I was you, have continued with Claire, because she is the bestfamily/divorce solicitor on this site.
She is not acting for you or your husband and based upon accuratefacts from both of you, there can only be one answer and there cannot be aconflict of interest.
I have had questions where both husband and wife have been on thesame thread and it is actually been really interesting to respond to them bothbecause the facts coming from one tend to be different and the facts comingfrom the other.
However each of them read each other's posts and the matter wasresolved between them without solicitors arguing between the solicitors,charging £500 per hour. That kind of cost needs to be taken into considerationif you are going to have solicitors having a bun fight with each other at yourexpense.
However if you are adamant that you want someone else to answer Iwill continue. I shall leave that with you
Your husband has done a trade with you. He has offered you 70% ofthe house and he gets 30% but he wants to keep 60% of his pensions. If you don'twant an argument and for him to offer you 60% of the house (which is probablythe maximum you would get if it went to court), you might want to considertaking his offer.
It comes down to what the pensions are worth and what the houseis worth and doing the maths.
Can either I or Claire help further?
thank you. i have excepted terms of 40% of the pension. and we are putting a letter together to forward to the court.
Claire offered to opt out, i didn't request it. but thank you both anyway.
I am glad to help.
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I have asked admin to split the fee 50-50 between me and Claire.Kind regardsthank you