thank you, XXXXX XXXXX is WDH housing organisation
No he hasn't even mentioned divorce at all and have not heard anything, I have been waiting but nothing as yet.
Thank you for your advice, I thought that I would seek legal advice as he said last night he was going to see a solicitor about taking him off tenancy and wanted to know where I stood in regards XXXXX XXXXX taking him off, the reason I am not is that last time I took him off at his own request he blamed me for it all and then begged and pleaded for me to put him back on again so I did reluctantly as WDH said that I could not put him back on a second time if he continued to leave the premises, I just wanted to keep everything the same, as him being on it still keeps everything normal for if and when he returns as he has come back on numerous occasions which he stated each time that he wasn't coming back at all.
I am just thinking about it at the moment to see what is the best option, please can you tell me why its classed as unreasonable behaviour on my part as I have lost two kids and been grieving and was diagnosed with depression and anxiety and have a missed heart beat and have been on medication so its not that I treated him badly or had an affair or been abusive, I never planned my life to be this way if anything he's been verbally abusive to me by swearing and blaming and been controlling knowing I was ill and made me feel worse but I take full responsibility for my part. Thank you
So that means he can go ahead for a divorce? sorry I just need clarification and have trouble reading things right and this is last question I promise ha ha.Thank you I appreciate your time and sorry if I am being annoying.
Thank you I see your point and yes he may not pursue a divorce as he is money minded and tight and wouldn't want to be out of pocket and may be hoping I would so it would cost me instead, just doing research on him and what I have found out is he is in mid life crisis mode, which he fits perfectly with his anger issues, not knowing what he wants coming and going etc, least I have something to work against now and help sort. Thank you so much for your advice and for being patient with me, your advice is very much appreciated and you have helped me so much.