sorry for delay in replying .
No proceedings for divorce as yet but hope to soon .Difficult situation as I have 2 autistic girls who I am concened about ages 20 and 15.
A new man in on the scene last few weeks and my wife has bee leaving them in the house with him when she goes to work 4am .
I know nothing about him !! so ....
I tried the third party suggestion which was horrendus shouting abusive and so on .....where do I go from here ???