My wife says our daughter and herself must be comfortable with the situation. She indicates it will take time. Whilst it is true that Rebecca is very close to her mother and she is very protective of Rebecca it borders on being oppressive and it doesn't leave much room for myself. That is not to say Rebecca is not at ease with me as she is but my wife always wants to be present. I worked away from home and came home on a rotational basis. Maybe 6 weeks away and then 2 weeks at home. At present I get home every weekend.My frustration is that I see my daughter for 2 or 3 hours at most on one of the weekend days with my wife in attendance in a supervisory basis. The inference being I cannot look after my daughter which I take as an insult . This has gone on for 6 weeks and I see no change in the situationSeeing my daughter for about 12 hours during this 6 week period is making my tenuous bond with my daughter worse rather than better . My wife does not want help to mediate , certainly when I ask her. Brian
No we have not attended mediation. My wife has filed for divorce without mediation. No i don't know where Rebecca lives and no allegations of violence
My wife moved out on 19th Nov. Yes i know which school my daughter goes to
my wife moved out on 19th Nov and yes i do know which school my daughter attends.