There are 3 girls, aged 16, 14 and 10.
I'm not sure this arrangement is necessary, but it seemed like a good idea at the time so that he could maintain relationships with the children. My husband has moved back into his mother's house as an interim arrangement. This is about 45 minutes away, and could easily accomodate the children were they to go there every alternate weekend.
Now that I'm starting to get over the shock, I wonder whether this "kindness" on my side will effectively be interpreted in the divorce proceedings as my husband still living in our matrimonial home, and if so, this will compomise my ability to secure the best possible divorce terms.
In short, am I compromising my own future financial security and independance with this "kindness"?