She is 6 on 15th Feb, she doesnt want to go with him and he has never played a big role in her life but suddenly wants to play super daddy at her expense, it would upset and devastate her emotionally to be made to go anywhere with him and he knows this!
He last seen her about 2 months ago and that was breifly!
she is very close to me he wasnt around when she was born so we have always had that close bond, but even to be left with him for a matter of 5 mins would distress her the thought of me leaving her with him just upsets her she has never stayed with him in anyway even if he was in my house and I only went upstairs she would panic being left with him, she has witnessed him shouting nastlily at me he has reduced her to tears with fright when he has shouted in the past he is just not a good person and has never played a father role so she doesnt feel comfortable with him in any way! but like my family she will stay will any of them just not him!
Ok I know I cant stop him sending the letters but doesnt he have to try other things that cost money before applying to the court I though this was a last resort, so what if I made things diffivult for him like sending all letters back saying I didnt live at the address or saying he isnt the biological father what kind of expenses would that entail then?
I though court was a last option doesnt he have to try other things before being aloud to apply to a court and what about solicitors fees on top of that?
I am also 3 months pregnant and this is casuing me massive stress and raised bloodp ressure which is a danager to me and my baby can I not stop him putting me through such stress at a importnant time!!
No her view is this cause he has bever taken an interest in her before he is doing it now to prove a point!
Can the questions I asked above be answered please?
Well I can ensure you that is her views kids aint stupid they know who are in their lives and who are not she witnessed him pack and walk out and a 6 year old has seen him verbally attack me made her cry in fear so yes I am sorry these are her views she doesnt need any convincing otherwise its whats she has witnessed over the years, my questions were still not answered that I asked above???
He has also had alot of issues in the past with trying to kill himself, driving his car through a library wall, not someone I find safe or in a right state of mind to have my child!