OK that sounds good but what I need is a form of words that I can put in a letter. I am pretty sure that the solicitor dealing with the estate (executor is my cousin) will write to each of the siblings and we will have to put something in writing saying we are willing to give her 2000 from our but only under the circumstances I have described. I don't want us to be obligated to pay if she doesn't play ball so what I need is a form of words that will work.
can you give me something that will work that a solicitor cannot slip through?
many thanks for your help this is perfect. hope you have a good evening - thanks to you I most certainly will.