My ex promised to hand it in but didn't despite repeatedly assuring me that she did. She now claims she didnt as she was waiting for some pension info.
I want to revise as I have learned new aspects of her behaviour and want to eliminate those parts that are more generous relative to what she would be legally entitled to.
Also, perhaps relevant, I never obtained legal advice myself whereas she did
1- I offered her all my modest pensions instead of 50/50
2- my compensation has two aspects. Regular salary and a loan which is an advance repayable from anticipated future capital gains. I now think that the loan should not be taken into account
3- I offered her a 40% share of those future capital gains, which I don't believe she is legally entitled to
on going maintenance -
25% of my income+loan advance for child maintenance
30% of the remainder for spusal support
capital divided 50/50
2- 15 and 16 yrs
would you happen to be aware of similar cases/jurisprudence where in fact the courts did not exercise this option (i.e. found in my favor)