to the best of my knowledge, the house is worth about £100,00. i think he owes somewhere in the region of £50,000 on the mortgage.
we've been together 8 years in total, and since i gave up my own property to move to his, i have very little left. mainly just furniture, washing machine, drier, and my car.
he has two cars, plus 3 vintage tractors to take to shows, 2 cars for restoring, assorted tools, a caravan, the house, and numerous old farming implements, also for shows. theres 10 horses too, only 2 of which are passported to him, 2 to me. 1 on loan.
he demanded £160 pw for household bills at one point. i told him i cant afford that, as i only earn about £250 pw, and i have to pay electric, gas, and rental for the pastures. + run a car. im paying £100 a month just in phone bills, as i have to have 2 mobiles, (police recommended changing my number, but i kept the old one too, just in case i need to contact him). also ive had to get my own land-line installed to be able to get internet coverage.. so i try to put £100 away for houshold expenses weekly, if i can.
as i say, i earn about £250 pw. he's about £450 to £500, not sure exactly as i never see his payslips.