Hi Clare -
Yes. I sought legal advice approximately 5 years ago and was advised to attempt joint counselling with my ex-partner. We did start down this road but due to me being unable to fully explain what I had done to either the solicitor or the counsellor (I was/am very afraid of the consequences of telling the whole story in relation to the web content I looked at) it all fell down.
None. I am open to this option if necessary.
I understand that counselling is the way forward.
What I need to understand is that what I discuss with a counsellor, or indeed a solicitor, will remain confidential. I don't want this to escalate to the point where I get prosecuted for my actions of 10 years ago.
I need a conclusive answer before I can feel confident to proceed.