A university lecturer was being inapropriate and suggestable to me during my last years at university. Unfortunatley I did get involved with him and in his words, made it into a relationship and therefore too legitimate for me to be able to make a complaint about it. I felt I could not tell anybody as he often would say (when I tried to leave him) that no one would believe me if I made a complaint and even if they did , they would say because I agreed to the relationship with him, that it would not be taken seriosly. I fee that this university lecturer took advantage of me at a time when I was quite vulnerable and yes I was in a relationship with him but he used his position of power to gain it. At the same time, he was actually constantly messaging and flirting with other university students. this makes me feel that he is able to carry on behaving this way with no repurcussions. I was emotionally abused by this lecturer during my last year at uni and as well three years after as he wished to continue seeing me. I know I have no cause for the latter years, but surely the beginning while being his student as well as his conduct with other students should mean something?