no I never visited him in prison. we are both willing to stop if it means I can see my grandchildren again. I do call what he did bad but he never touched them or even asked them to pose for photos, the police are satisfied that he didn't do that. Yes it is social services who imposed the ban. I think they are being a bit draconian. My husband lives in another town so I would not be having the children so he could see them, which is what social services think.
the children are 6 and 10. but as I saw my husband against the wishes of social services my daughter has been told the children will be taken from her.she would be willing to supervise contact, but social services say it is too late for that.
he was arrested about 5 years ago. yes I was clearly told but went against it as I took my grandchildren into town one time without one of their parents with me. I texted my husband to warn him to stay at home, which he was happy to do. he does not want to see the children. however a certain policelady who does not like me, and has admitted it, saw the text and told social services I was taking the kids so he could see them. nothing could be further from the truth, and my daughter has been ill with social services pestering her. they have been out of the picture for a year or so but are back with a vengeance. They keep saying I cannot see him and the children too but no one will tell me why.