I wish to receive an apology for having been wrongly accused of having written the above mentioned letter.
Ialso wish for the culprint who did write the letter to be found.
The letter was typed(not hand written)
It aid that mr.(my son's name was mentioned} was not competent at his job, and he was sacked from the last firms.
It was stated that he was marrying for money, not love.
The letter was addressed and sent to his then Fiance' s parents,2 days prior to the wedding.
Not sure if the letter has actually was written or sent.
My son showed a ?scan of the content of the ietter.His wife did not allow my son to give a copy to my husband.
Apart from the scanned letter shown to my husband on my son's smart phone.My son referred to the letter as having written by me.
so I have been accused verbally about me having written the letter.He said that "I wanted to stop the marriage and to ruin his career "
I have lost contact with my daughter in law,,some close friends who were my son's best friends,my brother is now estranged from me.I have no contact with my son's inlaws .I am attending Counselling sessions since a year ago.I am very distdessed and my mental and emotional health are suffering. I shall continue receiving therapy on a weekly basis
Alex, I think you misunderstood the issue of the letter.
Please ,let me explain.
I DID NOT write the letter which is alledged by my son,that it was sent by myself (His mother) to his Parents in law, 2 days prior to the wedding.
I SWEAR that I DID NOT write nor send that letter,or any such material to ANYONE.
My son is convinced that I did write and send the letter mentioned above.
He says that the letter is written in my grammatical and language style.
That is the reason he thinks /is sure,that I am the culprint.
When I saw my son very briefly,he told me that I was Psychologically or mentally ill. That remark arose when I cried and begged him to let me hold his newborn baby.
He refused to let me see the letter,and his wife refused to let my husband see the letter too.
I DO wish to prove that I did not write the letter...BUT I do NOT wish for my son to lose his wife,and son and maybe,his job.
Is there a way that the police or a lawyer convince my son and myself to meet and resolve this matter through mediation??
Can a professional expert approach my son and suggest a resolution of some sort.
My son, who is an only child/son now claims that I have hurt him over some long period.
Both my husband and I spent time,efforts, and emotional devotion to make our son happy, stimulated at school and activities for at least 25 years.We supported him in any adventure or career or social path he took or wished to take.he is bright, was always a bright pupil and student. We praised him ,helped when needed and praised him for successses and recognition at work.He was always very close to me and I encouraged him to distance himself gradually as he was to become a responsible adult.
If is proved that I did not write that poison pen letter , my son could believe that I have no malicious feelings against him.He would be proved to to be wrongly accusing me
What about blaming me for having written lies which upset my son and caused him to fear damage to his reputation and career.I am suffering anxiety and depression for being blamed unjustly for doing something I did Not do.My name is XXXXX XXXXX am forbidden from seeing my son and new grandson.Someone has written a damming letter causing severe emotional pain and a family rift as a result. My son's career and marriage is threatened and I am being blamed.
Thank you for your replies and information.