It started with isolated incidents when I was first widowed in 2004.It has become increasingly intense over the last two years. And since she married and moved last October (and got promotion)it has escalated. Almost every week I am getting to hear something back via a third party.be it close family, distant family, people I've worked with. I anticipate it now. I actually don't want to go out only to work and even that's a worry.as one of my colleagues also works with the MIL at another care facility. We get on extremely well .I haven't said anything about my daughters behaviour as I don't want to enter a 'tit for tat mentality.my husband and I hadn't spoke to close family about some of the things she's done but I got fed up keeping silent and still suffering assuaults.so I told my parents and sister about a month ago. I had to talk to someone. Since then she has stepped up and I am at the point of breakdown again.
Telling people I chucked het out with a new born baby.Nevet supported her through college and university. Never said im proud of her.Her fathets death was my fault.He committex suicide whilst abusing drugs and we were two weeks awzy from divorce.How I s we (her steodad oncludef) should get our parenting skills sorted as we hav
She was constantly calling me but I have blocked het number on my mobile . She started to call on the landline but I told her not to call me any more as she distressed me . She then started calling her step father on his mobile.He tried to remain calm while she ranted but the last time she called him about a month ago she threatenef him and was extremely insulting.He was very distressed too.We have both undergone a course of counselling together as we have been extremely disturbed by this.She now uses other people we know as stated to rant and vilify us.We dont know the exact content but its obviously very serious as to the text and letters weve received.And my poor parents have been subjected to it.Mostly accusations that are slanderous and pure fabrication.My mother wont be too specific as she sees how upsetting it is for me.
orry I fell asleep. Have done a double shift finishing this morning.
I dont know as I have deleted her number and only answer callers I recognise.I dont answer the land line anymore .Im too frightened. As far as im aware she hasnt called either of us for 3 weeks. Unkess my husband hasnt told me.Shes calling our friends and oeple we/I know ir used to work with.Some on facebook but I no longer have an account.